Does People Pleasing Prevent People From Trusting You?

Does people pleasing prevent people from trusting you? Because I am inherently a people person (read: people pleaser), I spent a good portion of my life and energy trying to make sure people like me. Sometimes, in my younger years, this involved being agreeable and...

Do You Lead or Micromanage?

The Colonel said, “Choose your team wisely, kiddo. Pick people who have the knowledge, skill, and character to do what you need them to do. Once you’ve done that, step aside and let them do it.” We all have our strengths, and we all have weaknesses. The mark of a...

Do You Talk Over People’s Heads?

Have you ever had a conversation with someone who you felt was talking over your head? Maybe on purpose? It’s not effective communication at all. The Colonel said, “You may think I’m smart, and maybe I am. But all of my smarts and all my degrees don’t amount to...

Does Your Team Understand You?

It’s no accident that I ended up as a professional speaker. It seems I spent most of my youth hearing people tell me to stop talking. It wasn’t until much later in my life that I realized there is a real difference between talking and communicating. The Colonel said,...

Do You Persuade or Manipulate?

Are you afraid of being persuasive? You’d be surprised at how many people secretly are. That’s because so many connect persuasion and manipulation. I know, I did for a very long time. The Colonel said, “Ya gotta learn to be persuasive. Here’s the difference between...

What Do You Want Your Leadership Legacy To Be?

Do you know what your leadership legacy will be? The Colonel said, “I’m not gonna be in a leadership position forever, kiddo, and neither will you. No one is in leadership forever. The best I, you, or anyone can hope for is to influence enough people that you create a...
Lauren Schieffer, Motivational Speaker
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